I don’t know if I should be honest. I know what it’ll give him if I say I’ve thought about it, that everyone thinks about it, that everyone worries they’re not doing the right thing. Everyone has to accept that they might not be. I’m taking each day as it comes, but as far as I know, this is what I want. It’s what I want. I don’t need to carry the burden of other people’s doubt.
Being gender nonconforming comes with so much doubt and questioning. Being questioned like this by a partnerd is so disheartening.
