I saw what I wanted to see and didn’t know how sick he really was becoming. We were swept up in the sadness of losing our mother. It was easier to imagine that Danny was doing well, even though we all had nagging doubts. Mary Kay and I were busy raising our kids, and Molly and Patty lived far away. Danny rarely came around for family gatherings and holidays. When he did, he was very guarded about what he would say,
