They never had the chance to get old. When someone dies suddenly, especially if it’s by suicide, you don’t get to grieve them in the same way that you do for someone who’s lived a full life or battled a long illness. You might strain to recall an amusing anecdote or two, but to assuage the guilt or dull the shock, you constantly remind yourself how sick they were and that they are much better off now that they are dead. That
