Here’s what happens in a family business when someone looks at you the way that Achilles was looking at me. It isn’t just him looking. It’s my father, and my grandfather, and my great-great-grandfather Elias and great-great-grandmother Elene and my great-great-granduncle Elijah, who are all looking out of Achilles’s eyes. And they’re all trying to learn to let go just a little bit. It isn’t easy, but they’re trying.