aren’t going to want sex or if we aren’t going to find others sexually attractive, then we should erase ourselves from the allosexual gaze as much as possible: don’t be attractive, don’t be smart, don’t be kind, don’t be interesting. We can’t be attractive if sex isn’t going to be an option, and if we are attractive in some way, we’re playing the game unfairly or existing in a way that’s incomprehensible.
