You're That Bitch: & Other Cute Lessons About Being Unapologetically Yourself

by Bretman Rock

learn your history, honor your traditions, but also keep your eyes and ears open for what maybe needs a little updating and zhuzhing up.

If somebody gives you red flag after red flag, there’s a reason for it. You have to go. It’s literally like that easy. Just bounce. Save yourself early.

And there are a lot of things you can do to show your allyship outside your own specific communities. I think one of them is just being a fucking decent and compassionate person. Just listening to people and taking the feedback, even when it’s hard and painful, is what a decent person does.