There’s so much subjectivity in whether you’re chosen or not, whether you’re considered “the best” or not, whether you’re even considered “good” or not. It’s all so silly; it doesn’t mean anything. What matters is that you’re living your life according to your values. There’s no point in comparing yourself to others because for one thing, you don’t know what’s going on in someone else’s private world. And for another, no one has the exact same set of values as you do.
