The difference is, men are more likely to confront them head on. Women wait and listen. We don’t forget; we simply hold off until the time is right to address them. Suppose, for example, that, as I sat alone with Theodore Bundy, I had confronted him with the discrepancies between his stories: “But, Mr. Bundy, last time I talked with you you told me you had killed …” Not a good idea. Based on the years I worked on his case, not a good idea at all.
