I love the analogy of a juicy orange. Squeeze it, and you find out that what’s inside of the orange is juice. When you look at a human being, and you apply pressure to them, what comes out all depends on what’s inside. If you have peace and love and patience inside, then that’s what will come out when “life happens.” If you have anger, resentment, shame, and stress inside of you and haven’t learned to process that pain, then that’s what will come out of you when everything doesn’t go according to plan.

