Give her a set of clear moral guidelines. To do this, you need moral clarity in your mind, and preferably in your life as well. If you don’t want her to lie, don’t ask her to tell the phone solicitor that you’re not home. If you want her to speak respectfully to others and to you, take charge of your tongue. Don’t let insults or swear words fly around your house. If you don’t want her to get drunk, don’t drink too much.
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