Here’s what tends to happen to people who haven’t defined a win: they settle for someone else’s. Your parents may decide what they want for your life. Without your own goal, you’ll fall into their plan as if you have no choice. Bosses most assuredly have a way they want your life to go. They will enforce their will unless you are committed to running your own race. Most commonly, people without a defined win fall into the current of culture. They live like everyone else. Not having a finish line makes it easy to want a new car like your neighbor’s, a promotion like your coworker’s, and a
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