RULES REALIGNMENT Right now, begin to take control of your rules by writing down your answers to the following questions. Make your answers as thorough as possible. 1. What does it take for you to feel successful? 2. What does it take for you to feel loved—by your kids, by your spouse, by your parents, and by whoever else is important to you? 3. What does it take for you to feel confident? 4. What does it take for you to feel you are excellent in any area of your life?