Having a loving concern for others does not mean always giving in to their demands. We do have a responsibility to look out for our own interests (Phil. 2:4). Furthermore, Jesus calls us to be "as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves" (Matt. 10:16). The Greek word phronimos, translated "shrewd" in this passage, means to be "prudent, sensible, and practically wise."' A wise person does not give in to others unless there is a valid reason to do so.
