you wander around the nothingness of the threshold, follow your internal compasses no matter where they take you. If you feel an irresistible urge to cook lentils, or buy an aquarium, or watch a twenty-four-hour Mary Tyler Moore–athon, I truly believe that’s the quickest route to the life you were meant to live. For a while, you might not see how this is going to work. That’s okay. Just keep doing what feels most joyful,
