Thus the defining point of abuse is when the man starts to exercise power over the woman in a way that causes harm to her and creates a privileged status for him.
Has hurt me: sexual coercion, making me go to Denver, making me go to telluride in the middle of HBOT, generally seems to feel embarrassed about me when I’m not in good condition, has forced me to dress with skimpier clothes than I’m comfortable with by pressuring me and only buying the skimpy clothes, etc.