Any of the following behaviors should put you on alert: He gets too close to you when he’s angry, puts a finger in your face, pokes you, pushes you, blocks your way, or restrains you. He tells you that he is “just trying to make you listen.” He raises a fist, towers over you, shouts you down, or behaves in any other way that makes you flinch or feel afraid. He makes vaguely threatening comments, such as, “You don’t want to see me mad” or “You don’t know who you’re messing with.” He drives recklessly or speeds up when he’s angry. He punches walls or kicks doors. He throws things around, even if
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