OMG!!! Remy says I control him… it’s an argument we have that leaves me feeling so confused. He says I make him walk on eggshells, especially since I got sick. I think this is because I did need him more when I was sick, but he already resented that I wasn’t in school or working so much that me asking for anything extra was seen as controlling.
He has to “walk on eggshells” because I tell him his behavior has hurt me. It all goes back to him.
If he read these notes, he’d probably think I’m crazy because these are all of “my” bad behaviors (I.e., telling him when he’s upset me). Usually leads to me trying to change something about myself (like my years-long struggle to keep up with his sex drive…)
