He may be attracted primarily to sex involving domination, referred to by some researchers as the sexualization of subordination. As your relationship progresses, he may feel disappointed to discover that you don’t fit his fantasy of a concubine—submissive and servile. There may be ways in which you stand up to him, refusing to relinquish certain aspects of your life or thoughts to his control. Some abusive men unfortunately have difficulty in achieving sexual arousal once they discover that a woman is determined to be her own person.
“I don’t like it when you’re not submissive”
He loves to talk about CONSENT! Doesn’t he! Yet that time when I declined to suck him off so I can SLEEP! He said “I don’t like it when you’re not submissive.” I told him right then and there that that’s coercion! Like wtf! Fucking get OVER it!
Why does this book actually fit and describe him 💀☠️
