This style of man also tends to make promises that he doesn’t keep, coming up with a steady stream of excuses for disappointing you
Yup! Him telling me “you don’t ever have to worry about dates.” To then switching around and saying I need to start offering to split basically making me stress out and about dates. When I confronted him about it he had a list of excuses. He said “Things change.” , “priorities change.” , “I’ve got bigger fish to fry.” , “I naively said that.” . My biggest issue with this is that he said that he had no issue with breaking his own word.
