For example, you as the partner of an abuser may have become increasingly depressed over time (because chronic mistreatment is depressing), and now he gets angry about the ways in which your decreased energy make you cater to him less enthusiastically. Similarly, abuse may diminish your drive for sex, and then he is hurt and enraged about your lack of desire for him.
He always wants me to be enthusiastic in the bedroom but sometimes I can’t. A man needs to a treat his woman right, cater to her needs and desires first if he wants her to be enthusiastic
