Husbands are not to be the autonomous boss-man of their homes. Being the head of the home does not mean being the loudest in the home. The husband is the true authority in the home, of course, but what is the nature of biblical authority? Being the head of the home does not mean being the most irritable one in the home. Being head of the home does not mean that you get your way all the time. We must be free from all individualism in marriage.