She explains how common it is for women, who bear the heavy mental load of household CEO, to mistakenly believe that it’s smarter and easier for them to get all the little tasks done because their partners are less efficient and never get them done quite right. What these women don’t calculate is the resentment and rage that build up over years and years of just doing it all because it’s “easier and faster.” It may seem easier to do it all in the short term, but when it comes to boundaries, we need to be in it for the long haul. The goal is a system that operates through the work of multiple
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