“Well, to be clear, as much as I like how Dr. Colson told Ava what to do sexually, I don't identify with her need to be controlled all the time. I’m not the kind of person who wants a man around to provide me with structure and discipline, which you alluded to earlier. I’m a big girl, Nas, and a bad bitch if I do say so myself. I love my job, I’m independent, I pay my own bills and rent, I take care of myself,