When both you and your partner commit to this Self-led way of relating, it doesn’t ensure that your relationship will be forever harmonious. It does, however, mean that you both will use it to learn about and heal the burdens you brought to it. When you do that, you are doing what you are here to do, and your relationship will benefit. Your protective parts can relax with the knowledge that even if you have a big fight, your partner will do their work and will then show up again as their Self. Each of you will use the fight to clear more obstacles to your Self-to-Self relating. That knowledge
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