of the Hurt, and Then Triggered Other People or Disturbed You This happened when you were (to give a few examples from my clinical work): displaced by the birth of a sibling, so you pouted and tantrummed and then were severely scolded; secretly sexually molested by a family member, so you began acting out sexually with other children and were harshly punished; attacked by a bully at school, felt as though you never wanted to leave the house, and locked up the fear so you could return to school; or shocked by the sudden death of a parent, wanted to collapse with grief and never get out of bed,
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