I’m a “walk toward the fire to put it out” kind of person, and will actually just acknowledge that it’s awkward because it doesn’t feel like we’re being transparent with one another. I’ll state what I know from my perspective and then ask if other folks are feeling the same. If you do this, you’ll usually have to wait a beat or two. People will likely be a bit shocked that you came right out and said it. It may take them a couple of seconds to adjust and consider what will happen if they tell the truth too. It’s crucial that you not speak to fill the silence in these moments. It may feel
...more
