We create our own reality, not by being in denial, but by choosing which aspects of our life to focus on. And, since we can choose what to focus on, choose the positive aspects. Finally, a third principle tells us to ask ourselves better questions to get better answers. So instead of asking yourself, Why is this job search so hard? or Why can’t I get more done? try asking yourself, What would I like to see more of in my life now? or What would I like to focus on today to move my job search forward?
