To make it more fun, take a large piece of white paper and then, with some colored pencils or pens, draw a picture of your ideal life: where you live, who’s with you, what you do, what your dwelling looks like, what your ideal vacation looks like, all of it. Don’t let reality get in the way. Pretend a magic wand has been waved over your life, and it gives you everything you think your ideal life would be. Now, of course you’re going to tell me you can’t draw. Okay, then make symbols for things, or create little doodads with labels—whatever works so that you can see all together on one page
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