When it’s allowed to go on long enough, the victim loses their ability to trust themselves or their own perceptions of what’s real. And, again, there are different ways a toxic person tries to gaslight someone: ○ They tell you that you aren’t remembering something right or that you’re plain out wrong when you know you are right. ○ They make you feel that your thoughts and feelings don’t matter to anyone else, either. ○ They withhold information, then act like they don’t know what you’re talking about.