If you answered mostly in Group B, your attachment style is Disorganized/Unresolved Attachment. This style is a mixture of avoidant and anxious attachment. Your caregiver could have been abusive, frightening, and behaved inappropriately toward you. You may fear them; they were not present for your safety and security. However, your child-self tells you they are your parents, and you should be loyal to them. You may want to be close to others but fear it. Your childhood experiences have led to inconsistency and confusion in relationships on your and the other person’s end. This attachment style
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Hi mom. 😅 welcome full circle. Now let’s include the SA from childhood neighbor. Then mother dearest invading my privacy (fine I was a minor) & reading it in my diary. But then sending me to therapy where she watched me behind the glass… I wonder why therapy didn’t work? 🤔😅 At least I have my humor
