People can spend days and even years complaining about something that happened to them or why something is the way it is. It hasn’t even occurred to them to drop the ultimately self-harming tools of blame and victimhood.
Oh I know!! That was me for 3 years straight, starting from 2019-2022. I was sexually harassed and been in one of the most abusive relationships ever at 15 years old back in 2018. All I did after the situation ended in 2019 was dwelling on it and pulling myself down continuously and I had hard time finding myself. The situation got me so stuck but I had to pull myself out of it by force in 2023 because it was affecting my focus in college, not allowing me to be the best I can be, and it was making me settle for less than my self worth.
