8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

by Jay Shetty

Coaching. We live in a world where experts and information are easily accessible online. Start by looking for widely available resources to help you with this issue. Find a book, podcast, course, friend, professional, TED Talk, MasterClass, or online video to help you. You’ll find that most of these resources will help you break your goal into achievable smaller steps, bringing a challenge that once seemed insurmountable into focus. 2. Consistency. Use the information you’ve gathered to make a plan for how to address the issue in an ongoing way. Set a goal for the year’s end. This goal should be tied to action items, not an achievement. That is, your goal shouldn’t be “Make a million dollars.” It should be committing to ongoing efforts that will help you grow in this area. 3. Community. Look for a community that might help support your efforts. There are online and local support groups for everything under the sun. Find one where there is a mix of people who are in the same position you are in, people who are in the process of making changes, and people who have some measure of success in transforming their lives in the way that you wish to.