8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go

by Jay Shetty

Self-control is the time and space you create between the moment when you’re attracted to something and the moment you react to it.

You have the self-control to wait for someone you can be happy with and the patience to appreciate someone you’re already with.

It’s important to put out the version of yourself that you want someone to be attracted to, as opposed to the version of yourself that you think someone would be attracted to.