believe other people can’t or don’t love us desperately seek love and approval often seek love from people incapable of loving believe other people are never there for us equate love with pain believe we want/need/love people more than they want/need/love us try to prove we’re good enough to be loved don’t take time to see if other people are good for us worry whether other people love or like us don’t take time to figure out if we love or like other people center our lives around other people
