If people have created some disasters for themselves, we allow them to face their own proverbial music. We allow people to be who they are. We give them the freedom to be responsible and to grow. And we give ourselves that same freedom. We live our own lives to the best of our abilities. We strive to ascertain what we can change and what we cannot change. Then we stop trying to change the things we can’t. We do what we can to solve problems, and then we stop fretting and stewing.

