find ourselves saying yes when we mean no, doing things we don’t really want to do, doing more than our fair share of the work, and doing things other people can and should do for themselves not know what we want and need or, if we do, tell ourselves what we want and need isn’t important try to please others instead of ourselves find it easier to feel and express anger about injustices done to others than injustices done to us feel safest when giving feel insecure and guilty when somebody gives to us feel sad because we spend our whole lives giving to other people and nobody gives to us find
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