doing something we really don’t want to do saying yes when we mean no doing things for people who should be doing those things for themselves meeting people’s needs without being asked and before we’ve agreed to do so doing more than a fair share of work after our help is requested consistently giving more than we receive in a particular situation fixing people’s feelings doing people’s thinking for them speaking for another person suffering people’s consequences for them solving people’s problems for them putting more interest and activity into a joint effort than the other person does not
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