“Listen, earthlings! Stop worrying about attracting people! For heaven’s sake, do the things that you love doing. Read books! Take up clog dancing! Serve meals at the soup kitchen! Train for the space program! Volunteer at a homeless shelter or talk to dogs you see in the park. Dance! Or don’t do any of those things—just lie on the floor and contemplate the ceiling fan if you want. Whatever! Do the things you like to do, concentrate on pleasing and loving yourself—and you’ll be amazed at how much your life will improve. Romance isn’t the way to happiness! There are so many other ways! Stop
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