It’s true I don’t know the extent of men’s sexual urges. But I do know bodily urges. I know urges that all humans experience that are far, far stronger than sexual urges for both men and women—the urge to urinate and defecate. They are urges so strong that even if I ignore them, my body will take over and act on those urges. All humans know those urges, but we have learned to control them. We don’t just pee anywhere. We pee in toilets. We hold it till we get there. We build bathroom breaks into our day. We’re not asking too much when we expect men to control their sexual urges, when we expect
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