Perhaps you are thinking responsibility is fifty-fifty. The woman just needs to insist that the man use a condom. But hold up a minute. If the woman has to insist a man use a condom, haven’t you just described an irresponsible man? How is that fifty-fifty? You just put 100 percent of the responsibility on the woman by saying she needs to insist the man use a condom. You’re asking the woman to be responsible for her actions and also for the man’s actions.
