Would men really choose a few moments of slightly more pleasure over risking a woman’s whole life? Yes. Yes they would. It happens every day. It’s as common as dandelions. We could say men are extremely inconsiderate, but I think it’s more a matter of: 1) men not understanding or not appreciating what this actually means for women, 2) a culture that reinforces this ignorance, and 3) the all-too-human mandate to maximize pleasure, even at the disregard of possible consequences.