survived? I know the answer now. The answer is a gift that assembling these pieces has handed me. The answer is no.
I can see now that I put up with too much. I accepted too much in my marriage. That was not how it is supposed to be. Is this why it is so hard to forgive? I forgave too much as it was happening in real time, pushed down my intuition, let it go for the sake of the relationship?
