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at some point, you are going to have to start thinking for yourself and knowing what the fuck you want and getting that shit by any means necessary. You can’t let the possibility of people not fucking with your decision—family included—influence how you run your life. Living for other folks is not the wave, Lil Mama.
Again, something my therapist taught me! As long as I’m good with my decisions, then that’s all that matters. If people in my family don’t understand or dislike it, then oh well 🤷🏾♀️
“Don’t give me excuses Grey. I want to know the real. It pissed me off to hear and see them both yelling at you like that, and your father just standing there. What the fuck was that?”
This reminded me of my husband. When he saw my family dynamic and how they speak/treat me, he literally pulled me aside and said something similar to this. It rly made me realize that I internalized a lot of their words/actions

