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My advice to you is to accept both that role in Lucy’s life and my role in her life—and not to confuse them.”
I suppressed a sigh. I would have to defeat them myself. And yet, I balked at the idea, hearing Sun Tzu’s words in my head. We can keep our forces concentrated, while the enemy’s must be divided.
“You are upset,” he said, as though I hadn’t just threatened to kill him.
“The man who fears a confident woman is a man whose true fear is his own weakness being challenged.”
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My brow knit. I had never considered it that way, but the words hit a mark with me. Did I not use Sun Tzu for the same purpose? The only difference was that I did not utter my guiding sayings aloud. Perhaps I was more like Mrs. Westwood than I had ever noticed. I wasn’t at all sure how to feel about that.
My mother once told me to embrace my spiritedness—to tame it and control it, but not subdue it entirely.
What I didn’t know was whether this was a game to him or whether there was any truth in what he was saying.
I always had to be difficult. It was something I was coming to regret more and more about myself. For some time, it had seemed like a strength. But with Mr. Russell’s presence over the last two weeks, it had come to feel like a petty weakness masquerading as a strength.
Was this what he had been hoping for all along? Tease and flirt with me until I lowered my defenses enough to do his bidding? Or was I so accustomed to seeing life as a battle that I mistrusted everything instinctively?
I wanted to be loved by him. Could I not just try?
Protecting myself had come to feel more like a cage than anything.
“I love the fight in you, Diana.
“I do not wish for a wife who needs to be taken care of, Diana. I want a wife who can take care of herself but who chooses to be with me because she loves me.”

