I refuse to let a man pay all of my bills because then I feel indebted to them and that is what doesn’t allow me to rest… at all. I always feel like I should be doing something to show my appreciation. Cleaning the kitchen, mopping the floors, dusting the ceiling fans… anything but sitting on my ass. For the first time, I can sit on my ass if that’s what I want to do. I don’t want that to stop.”

