Instead, people told me I was dumb, bratty, careless, ungrateful, or not applying myself. And none of that was true. I had to be creative and work hard to fit in, but I’m naturally creative and hardworking, so I was in it every day, grinding away, trying to fit in, until I grew strong enough to say, “Fuck fitting in,” which is what I intend to teach my children from the beginning, no matter what their neurodevelopmental profile happens to be.