“You claim to know me better than I know myself. Why can’t you just tell me what I should devote my life to?” “Because I experienced who you were, Arnold, not who you will become.” “And that matters?” “Far more than you comprehend. You seem to think life is static, on a set path, but a person’s life can deviate a hundred different ways. Unexpected events push us in new directions, forcing us to react, shaping us into who we will become.