That was the day she looked at us, and she said something like, “If you want to invite me into your house, and you say, ‘Come in, Barbara. Stay out, Boyd,’ I wouldn’t know what to do because I’m Barbara Boyd. In fact, I couldn’t even say, ‘This half is Barbara and this half is Boyd, so I’ll just bring this half in,’ because I’m all Barbara and I’m all Boyd. I’m both,
