Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better (updated with two new chapters)

by Brant Hansen

The thing that you think makes your anger “righteous” is the very thing you are called to forgive. Grace isn’t for the deserving. Forgiving means surrendering your claim to resentment and letting go of anger. Anger is extraordinarily easy. It’s our default setting. Love is very difficult. Love is a miracle.

Being offended is a tiring business. Letting things go gives you energy.

God knows others’ private motives. We don’t. God knows our private motives. We don’t. We think we can judge others’ motives. We’re wrong.

Your life will become less stressful when you give up your right to anger and offense.

Quit trying to parent the whole world.