Ultimately, there is a movement in this world with no one in the driver’s seat. Everyone is dealt different, complex hands of good and bad luck, all of which causes everyone to be who they are and aren’t. At bottom, no one chooses who they are born as, and no one chooses everything that happens thereafter, but ultimately, everything forms what one is. In the words of Schopenhauer, “Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills.”